Experience the Melancholy Beauty of ‘Tótem’: A Poignant Film About Life and Loss

A Lived-In World of Festivity and Calamity

Lila Avilés’ ‘Tótem’ immerses you in a vibrant and cluttered gathering of an extended family as they prepare for a birthday celebration. The camera roams through the scenes, capturing the natural, warm disorder of the occasion. Amidst the bickering and laughter, there is an underlying colossal and devastating event unfolding. Sol, a 7-year-old girl, observes it all, her father, Tonatiuh or ‘Tona,’ weak and debilitated by cancer. The film provides a raw and authentic portrayal of life’s struggles amidst moments of joy.

The Child’s Glimpse into an Adult World

Sol spends much of the film spying on the adult world, which seems strangely distracted from the impending tragedy just down the hall. As her family tries to shield her from the harsh reality, Sol sees through the facade. The film unfolds organically, free of sentimentality or overemphasis. Cinematographer Diego Tenorio’s skillful camera work captures the constant orbit of interplanetary bodies, while also highlighting the presence of insect life that continues amidst the chaos. ‘Tótem’ offers a profoundly melancholy perspective on the constant churn of life, seen through the eyes of a resilient child.

Sol’s Resistance and the Resilience of Life

Despite her family’s attempts to shield her, Sol resists and distances herself from the party, seeking solace on the roof. It is in these moments of solitude that she grapples with the impending loss of her father. Later, Sol demonstrates maturity beyond her years in a talent show, aiming to bring cheer to her ailing father. Through these poignant moments, ‘Tótem’ beautifully captures the resilience of life amidst the overwhelming weight of tragedy.

A Masterful Child’s-Eye View of Death and Family

‘Tótem’ offers a unique and masterful perspective on death and family. The film, which was Mexico’s shortlisted Oscar submission, captures the complexities of life through the innocent eyes of a child. With a compassionate and introspective tone, Avilés portrays the constant churn of life and the resilience of the human spirit. Through Sol’s journey, we are reminded of the beauty and fragility of life, even in the face of death.